Topic: TotalMix MIDI remote different in/outputs problem

I want to use an Akai MIDIMIX to control specific inputs, playback and outputs. Since TotalMix is picking up MIDI information and using it to control the inputs and software playbacks depending on the selected output I tried to work around this by adding a MIDI button/note to select the output that I want to use. Using free mode is no option since it 'ignores' how TotalMix uses the MIDI input.
The workaround is not very handy and I get stuck in trying to select a mono channel on the outputs. Every MIDI note is selecting a stereo output right now. Can anyone tell me if it is possible to simply control any chosen fader in the matrix or am I too optimistic and will I always be forced to use a workaround?