For #1 Yes, but these internal ports only work on the HDSPe PCIe versions of the card (these ports aren't active on the HDSP/PCI version IIRC). The "Sync In/Out" connections are on the main MADI card (not the WC card). I believe they use a PC CD-Player type connection for patching (type of cable that used to go from the CD-Player to the soundcard in old PC's) - but don't quote me on that.
For #2 - I was suggesting that you still sync Card #1 with the MADI input itself, and then use the internal jumper to feed card #1's clock over to card #2. Might help, might not depending on what's going on at the other end.
Feeding a BNC Wordclock from the main/master MADI device to RME MADI Card #1 would likely be your best bet IMO. Then slave Card #1 to card #2 with the internal sync connections as mentioned above. But if you don't have any room for the extra WC card, then syncing over MADI *should* work (as #2 mentioned).
Are the 2 MADI devices you are connecting to the two RME Cards sync'd together? What are the MADI devices involved, and how are they currently sync'd to each other? If those 2 devices aren't sync'd, then that is the first thing you'll need to address...
MADIface-XT+ARC / 3x HDSP MADI / ADI648
2x SSL Alphalink MADI AX
2x Multiface / 2x Digiface /2x ADI8